Manners Maketh The Man
Here at Adonis massage we have said time and time again, being an Adonis isn’t just about looks and a great physique, in fact, that’s probably the smallest part of it. (but it does help😊)
As we said in our very fist blog
‘every man, gay, straight or otherwise, should strive to be the best version of themselves that they can be. Be your own perfect man, your own Adonis.
Not in a narcissistic arrogant way, but in a way where we you love yourself, love the journey you have traveled so far and are excited about where it’s going.
Yes, a chiseled jaw bone, a handsome face, rippling muscles and abs help, but in time they fade, as all beauty does. As cheesy as it sounds, it’s the inner beauty that never fades, quite the opposite, it only gets stronger.
Constantly striving to better yourself, be a better version of you today than you were yesterday – physically, mentally and spiritually. In our opinion it’s those attributes that make an Adonis and it’s those that we here at Adonis Massage strive for’
Now… one attribute that counts is manners.
Don’t get me wrong, we all love banter, and someone who is zesty can be a big turn on, but manners are super sexy, and to put it bluntly, essential.
We are always cautious, polite and respectful in our communication, (maybe with a little bit of playful flirty teasing) but that doesn’t come at the expense of common respect and courtesy and usually never on first contact.
We like to get to know each other and find where the lines are. Some clients like a little banter and some don’t. Either is cool, but you need to know where those lines for every individual and build a repor and a connection.
It’s also a 2 way street guys, so please can we also ask when contacting us for the first time by email, text or phone, please bare in mind we aint your bitch, and if your communication gives us the impression you think we are then we can happily refer you to someone in Manchester who may be able to provide that type of massage service.
Massage Etiquette
As Manners maketh man, so to show Chivalry is most definitely not dead, here are some etiquette point to consider when having a massage.
Be Clean
Before your massage make sure you have a shower, or a bath, with bubbles and little rubber ducky if the mood take you. it doesn’t matter how, but be clean. A clean you is a more comfortable, less self conscious you.
Be On Time
Try not to be late. But also try not to arrive too early.
Switch off your mobile
Ok. No one ever turns off the mobile phone. But at the very least put it on silent.
You have a mouth, don’t be afraid to use it
You should feel at east and able to make requests to your masseur. Everyone is different. How much pressure you are happy with or able to take. Some people only like light pressure while others want to be just short of pulverized. Let us know what floats your boat. A good massage therapist can of course read you and will understand what you like and don’t like but good communication is also key. This also applies to body parts, If you don’t want certain areas touched, (maybe your left abdomen is very ticklish) just say so, it’s all good.
This also goes for all aspect of the massage from what oil is used to what music is played.
Strip off to where you are comfortable
Being fully as nature intended allows full body access, your Glutes (your Ass) for example, are the largest muscles in the human body. These muscles can only be fully massaged if your massage therapist has access and (obviously consent) to massage them.
However, and it’s a big however, it’s far more important that you feel comfortable and relaxed. If you want to keep your underwear on, that’s totally fine. If you want to remove it and have a towel, that’s cool too. or if you want to trip down to your birthday suit then go for it.
